You Are Right Where You Need to Be

I have the honor of sitting across from so many beautiful, courageous people~ each in their own way dedicated to their unique personal exploration and expansion. So often of late, people are imploring with impassioned pleas what they’ve done to cause something that is before them in their lives. Their question (which perhaps you’ve bumped up against once or twice in your own timeline) is one that reflects an outdated understanding of residing within a supportive, loving Universe. For some, their questioning may be in regard to an illness, for others a change in relationship or the loss of something once held dear. While the guidance and insights offered are always unique to each individual, I bear witness to a theme offered again and again…

You Are Right Where You Need to Be

If you find yourself questioning something that lies before you right now, consider changing your orientation to it so that you might see and/or experience it just a little differently for it is not about avoiding or navigating your way around that which is uncomfortable. The opportunity, rather, is about interpreting what is before you with new lenses, for there is no way for you to be anywhere but right where you need to be.

Your experience of anything, Beloveds, is defined by your relationship to it. Pause and drink that in… Write it on a hundred post-it-notes and place them everywhere that you might come to remember and ever more fully embody this knowing for it is surely one of the greatest and most powerful keys to fulfillment and resounding happiness.

Your experience of anything is defined by your relationship to it.

So the invitation is to look at how you are relating to what it is that is before you right now. Are there things that you could appreciate that perhaps have gone unnoticed or are your lenses attuned to what is not working, to what triggers you or worst of all, are you stuck in the muck and mire of wishing something were different than it is?

Changing your experience of anything is as simple as changing your orientation to it.

I invite you to consider dedicating yourself to explore the following as you meet that which stands before you…

• What is here that I can genuinely appreciate? There is always something (I promise!!)
• How might this person or experience before me be offering me an opportunity to know myself more fully as love, as patience, as compassion?
• Who do I desire to be in relationship to that which is before me now?

Questioning in this manner implies a state of consciousness and presence, a commitment to your highest experience of Self. As always, I invite you to try it on… see how it feels to sit just a seat or two over from where you've been...